Truth bomb: We’re looking for a life partner, not a renovation project. 🚫
Let’s get real about something that needs to be said…
The Partner vs. Project Reality Check
What we’re NOT:
- Your personal life coach
- Your emotional management system
- Your mother figure
- Your rehabilitation center
- Your basic life skills teacher
What Real Partnership Looks Like
Green Flags We’re Looking For:
- Emotional Intelligence in action, not just words
- Personal Responsibility for your own growth
- Inner Work that’s already in progress
- Life Skills that come standard
- Shared Goals for building a future together
Hard Truth Time 💯
We’re Not Here To:
- Fix your relationship with your mother
- Manage your daily responsibilities
- Process your emotions for you
- Parent you through adulthood
- Sacrifice our peace for your potential
The Bottom Line
Remember This: Your girlfriend is your partner, not your:
- Therapist
- Life coach
- Personal assistant
- Emotional support system
- Replacement mother
To Our Fellow Women
Your Worth Isn’t Measured By:
- How many broken men you can fix
- The potential you see in someone
- The amount of patience you have
- The emotional labor you provide
Instead, Value:
- Your peace of mind
- Your emotional wellbeing
- Your time and energy
- Your right to a true partnership
The Golden Rule 🌟
Healthy relationships are built between two whole people who want to share their lives, not between a person and their renovation project.
Choose:
- ✨ Partners over projects
- ✨ Growth over guidance
- ✨ Peace over potential
- ✨ Reality over rehabilitation
Remember: You want a partner who adds to your life, not someone who becomes your life’s work.